“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” Romans 12:12

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Stop and Listen

Every morning while I am getting ready, I turn on Pandora. I can't imagine my life without music. I grew up in a home where music was and always has been the center of our home. My dad is a musician and is the driving force behind why I love music the way I do.

After majoring in music in college, he toured with a Christian music group called "Wings of Light" and now he currently owns a music store in Lawton, Oklahoma. All growing up, I always remember my dad playing piano at some event at least once a week. He played at church, weddings, community jazz ensembles and was also a part of a duo group with just him and a guitar player playing weekly at restaurants around town. I have never known a life without music and I am so grateful for that.

Wes also grew up in a home where playing music was a daily occurrence since he, his dad, and brother are  all musicians. Wes's dad plays drums, as does Wes. And his twin brother, Dave, plays guitar. Wes and Dave were a part of a local secular rock band called, Stone Cold Sober, for about two years. However, as life changed for many of those in the band, they split up (still a sore subject with the twins). But that didn't cause the music to stop. Dave is currently playing with an 90's cover band and Wes is continuing to play drums at church. And of course, Wes's love for music runs deep with his love for music recording. There is no doubt that this family lives and breathes music.

God knew what He was doing when he brought Wes and I together. He knew our love for music would build such a strong bond with each other. To be able to understand the passion and joy of music is something we can share together and it is special part of our relationship.

When I listen to music, particularly Christmas music, I am always inspired. It has a way of taking ahold of your heart and takes you to an immediate place of worship.

This is how I want to start each and every day of my life; in a place of worship and music takes me to that place.

I have recently been listening to Bethany Dillon. She is a young, 20 year old, aspiring and very talented Christian artist. Her newest album, Stop and Listen, is wonderful. Her lyrics have blessed me every time I listen to them. I have noticed it is a great album to listen to as a new year begins. It causes me to think about my walk with God and the ways that it can be strengthened this new year. This album has simply said to me, just as the title says, stop and listen.

Wes and I always talk about how we need to spend more time in the Word of God. We know how powerful His word is and how much it can strengthen our faith in Him. Then why don't we do it?

Too busy...Right?

Yes, this is true. Wes works full time and I am a full time student.

Things are busy.

But in all the things we make time for during the day, why does time with God never seem to make the list? When we know how much it can change our lives if we make the commitment to Him?

We need to just stop...Nothing in our day can even come close to being as important as time with God.

There is time.

And we need to listen...

Wes and I always wonder: Where are our lives are going to lead? What does the future hold? Are we making the right choices? Are we doing what God has called us to do?

The answer to all these questions lies in our faith. And "so then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God". (Romans 10:17)

In order to hear from God, we have to listen.

We take on the challenge of taking more time to stop and build a personal relationship with Christ and to be still and listen to the things He is speaking into our lives.

So now I encourage and challenge you to "stop and listen". Take a moment to listen to this song and listen to what it is saying to you.






Meal Planning Week One Results

Well here it is at the end of the week and therefore I need to update everyone on how my meal planning went this week. Just this morning, as I was preparing tonight's dinner in the crock pot, I realized that it IS the end of the week and now I need to make next weeks meal plan. Oklahoma is also to be expecting snow the next few days which means going to the grocery store might be limited. Therefore, I need to get working on next week ASAP.

Anyone have any good recipes they would like to pass along? This would definately help in the planning process; less to think about! :)

Back to this past week...We did really well. And when I say that I mean we didn't eat out at all except for the pizza night on Monday. Other than that, we stayed home and either ate leftovers or cooked a meal.

This is a GREAT feeling for me. As I mentioned before, I am the one who looks at our expenses and attempts to "budget". I have gotten so frustrated with how much we are spending eating out. So this is a HUGE breakthrough for us. I hope it pays off at the end of the month when we look to see how much we saved by not eating out.

After this week, I'm pretty optimistic.
Most of the recipes I made this week were out of the Bride and Groom cookbook (see previous post). And I have to say, I am SO impressed with every single dish I have made! There isn't one single recipe that has left us more than impressed and very satisfied. It makes me not want to use any other cookbook, but I know I will need to branch out and try new things. But it is so hard when everything is SO good!

Wes and I decided to start rating the new meals that we try; basic scale of 1 to 10. This way we can either throw them out to never try again or make sure they become an addition to our "dinner recipe database" and use again.
So I am going to be sure and let everyone know how the rating turned out on each dish. Maybe it will cause you to want to try it too! Wes seems to be a very picky eater, so if you see a high rating, you can know that it MUST be good!

Here it is, our week's dinners at a glance....

Monday: Pizza Night!

Tuesday: Mexican Casserole

Wednesday: Leftover pizza (our schedule got crazy, so we had to make it quick)

Up to this point in the week, nothing spectacular and hadn't tried anything new. But Thursday started it all!

Thursday: Texas Chili (B&G Cookbook) It all can be summed up in one word: AMAZING!!

Rating: 11/10!!!

Note: Wes LOVED this recipe! He even said it might just be better than his Mom's chili. Whoah! His Mom makes some great chili, so this one must be a winner and a definate repeat. (maybe even next week!)





Friday: Pasta with Pesto, Shrimp, and Cherry Tomatoes,
                    Side: Roasted Asparagus
                                     (Both from B&G Cookbook)

Rating: 9/10

Quote from Wes: "This tastes like something you would order at a restaurant! SO good!"

I think that is a good sign that he liked it. It was really good and SO flavorful!





Tonight: Slow Cooker Pot Roast w/ Carrots and Red Potatoes

Rating: No rating; yet to be determined.

**In the crock pot as we speak, slow cooking it's way to wonderful goodness!! We LOVE Pot Roast!








That's all I have as it relates to food. Wow, my past two posts have been about nothing but food. Hmm... And the only pictures I have taken have been of food... I am going to have to try and work on that. There really is more to Wes and I's life aside from food. :)

Until next time...

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Meal Planning to Save Money...Resolution #1

I think I may have found a New Year's resolution. Another fellow blogger, Megan, wrote a post about meal planning. And the more I read, the more I realized, I need to do this too! Not only to have something planned and have less to think about, but to also save us some money.

Since Wes and I have been married, the subject of money has come up quite often. It's crazy how you can try to prepare for such things in premarital counseling or just by talking it out with each other before the wedding and it is still a hard subject. I am lucky that we are both the type to be able to talk about things like adults and not let it get out of hand. We always come to an agreement that we are both happy with. And for that, I am a lucky woman to be married to Wes and to have the wonderful marriage that I do.

So, a few months ago, being the organized one, I decide to go over our expenses and create a budget. I know, I said it...budget. We both realize the importance of sticking to a budget but when it comes down to actually implementing the budget...we tend to "fall off the wagon". All good intentions, just can't seem to stick to it. Anyone else have this problem?

After looking at what we currently spend our money on, I found the culprit to all our money woes...EATING OUT! In a period of one month, we had spend almost $500 on eating out alone! Whoah!!! That is just craziness to me! I didn't feel like we were going out to eat that often, but I guess the numbers never lie. So I immediately break out the budget form and get to work on balancing out our expenses a little more appropriately.

Now this was..oh...last month that I wrote up our first budget. And did we stick to it? Nope. We didn't eat out as much but by no means were we trying to stick to an actual budget. Long story short, I have done probably two more budgets for us since then and still no luck in following through. Work in progess.

But I do know where our weakness is and that is still eating out. So when I read about others making a resolution to meal planning, I thought that would be a great way for us to save money and eat out less.

I spent all morning yesterday creating our first week of meals. (I am only attempting dinner so far..we are lucky to see breakfast or lunch on a regular basis) I got a great form for meal planning that has given me a good start to trying to plan ahead.

I pulled out my new cookbooks that Wes and I have gotten as wedding gifts and started planning!


I chose to stick with a few meals that I have already done before but also add in a few new ones to try. Wes and I also decided that we will have a "buffer" for one day of the week that can be pizza night. And thanks to a crazy evening last night...we already used up the pizza night. Starting out well aren't we? Ha

Here is my first week meal plan!


Once that task was accomplished, I had to make a trip to the grocery story to buy all of the goodies we would need for the week. One and a half hours later and $160 spent, this is what one week's worth of groceries looks like....



Wow. What work it is to shop for a full week. What was even harder was having an official list to shop from. Why this would seem easier having a list so you can go right in and out, it wasn't that type of experience for me.

Here I am in the grocery store, trying to read my list, check things off, keep track of how much I'm spending, and every person in the store (really..every single person) was running into me, trying to push me along. Ahhh!! Let me shop in peace people!! It drove me crazy! This doesn't seem to happen when you don't have a list and a predetermined agenda. But the second you have a list to guide you along, the people will get impatient with your wandering around trying to find what you need and just flat out make you want to give the list up all together. But I stuck to my guns and finished my shopping successfully. Success but nerves were a little bit shot.

Okay, I had a bad first full week meal planning shopping experience. Luckily, I get to do it all again next week. Yay! We will see how it goes.

No meal planning is complete without an organized binder to store away all the meal plans and wonderful recipes we will try. So I had to make a trip to Office Depot too.


And it turned out like this!





I can already tell that the weekly plan will be adjusted quite often depending on Wes and I's schedules. The plan is that the adjustment won't include eating out but simply changing what to eat on what day.

I hope I can keep up with it once school starts back. For now, one week down! Many, many more to go!

Tonight's meal: My Mom's Mexican Casserole! YUM!

(Yes, this is supposed to be Wednesday's dinner. Changing it up already!)

Quick and easy. Here is the recipe for those who want to try it. Thanks Mom! Delicious!!

Mexican Casserole
By: Melanie Jackson

Ingredients

1 can Cream of Mushroom soup
1 can Cream of Chicken soup
1 (8 oz) can chopped green chilies
3 cans chicken
1 cup chicken broth
1 bag Mexican style shredded cheese
2-3 tsp chili powder (depends how spicy you like it)
3 tsp minced onion
1/8 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp pepper
Tostito’s Chips


Directions

Combine all ingredients in bowl except chicken, cheese and chips
Layer x 2: chips, chicken, sauce, cheese (end with cheese)

Casserole Dish (9x13)

Bake in oven 30-45 minutes at 350 degrees

Saturday, January 1, 2011

New Year....Stronger Faith

Happy New Year!! I have had all good intentions of writing a new post but have already become lazy in the blog world I guess. So that means now is a perfect time to make a New Year's resolution...

"In 2011, I will be more consistent in my blog posts (school and studying permitting)". Always have to throw in the school excuse. :)

I actually had a great idea for a post the other morning but by the time I got around to sit down to write, I couldn't make anything work. So that post is tucked away in the "saved" files and maybe it will resurface and be published soon.

Wes and I had an uneventful but great New Year's Eve. The night went something like this: grocery shopping for New Year's dinner, dinner at the newest sushi place in NW OKC, one hour nap until 9:30 PM (we wouldn't have made it to see midnight if this hadn't have happened), watched TV until the ball dropped in Times Square, then toasted in the New Year with a glass of wine and a kiss. Pretty exciting for our first New Year's Eve as a married couple huh?

Although we didn't spend the night getting all dressed up and going out on the town, we were just where we wanted to be and that was with each other. It's funny how things change once you're married. (Although this isn't true for everyone) The things that were once so exciting are now not near as intriguing as spending the night in the comfort of your home, relaxing on the couch and enjoying being together. In the craziness of Wes's job and my school, relaxation together is hard to come by. So I try to soak in those special moments as much as I can.

Speaking of school...I start back to nursing school in two weeks. Yuck! I can't even begin to explain how wonderful it has been not having a ton of school and studying to worry about. Thanks to our break, I was able to get this blog started which is something I have wanted to do for a while but didn't have a whole lot of time to do so. As much as I am not ready to go back to class, I am excited that I am only 7 months away from graduation and 8 months from being a licensed RN! Wow! That is so crazy to think about. I never even intended on going back to school after my undergrad and now I have just about conquered nursing school in a short 14 months. I know I am doing what God has called me to do and that is such a peaceful feeling. I look forward to beginning a new career that will hopefully open up many doors of opportunity for Wes and I's future.

2010 will always be a great year for Wes and I. Wes landed a great job at the Post Office that has allowed him to support us financially while I am finishing school, I started nursing school, and more importantly, we were married November 13, 2010. God has been so good and so faithful to both of us throughout 2010. Although there were many challenging times for Wes and I, we have been able to stand strong in our faith in God and know He will continue to provide for us as long as we put our trust in Him.

Below this post you will find a YouTube video titled "My Help Comes From the Lord" by The Museum. The first time I heard this song on the radio, I was immediately touched by the words and began to worship God. The song talks about the promise we have as believers that we do not have to battle life alone. We have someone bigger than ourselves who can help us and lift us up when we need it the most. Even in the toughest times, we can have peace and be thankful for God's provision and blessing over our lives. Life is never free from struggle. But what a peace there is knowing we have a gracious God to go to for help.

I hope this song is a blessing and encouragement to you as much as it to me every time I hear it. God is good! And we are all blessed by the best! I am so anxious to see how God will continue to bless us in this upcoming year. From our family to yours...Happy New Year!!